Comments for Your Divorce Advisor http://www.your-divorce-advisor.com Divorce Advisor Blog Thu, 24 Dec 2009 00:53:22 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 Comment on Kids and Divorce – A Difficult Combination by RobleyBlake http://www.your-divorce-advisor.com/2009/12/kids-and-divorce-a-difficult-combination/comment-page-1/#comment-59 RobleyBlake Thu, 24 Dec 2009 00:53:22 +0000 http://www.your-divorce-advisor.com/2009/12/kids-and-divorce-a-difficult-combination/#comment-59 Divorce can be extremely traumatic to families, especially children. My children's picture book, Living With Mom, Spending Time With Dad takes us through a myriad of emotions that two children, Stephen and Alex, experience through this tumultuous period. Young Alex especially gives an extremely candid and honest account of the day-to-day trauma, the hostility and at times the many poignant memories that he has. Living with Mom, Spending Time with Dad also addresses the concerns and anguish of being torn between two parents. Throughout the story there is that underlying hope that everything will turn out alright and everyone will be back in their original comfort zone. Divorce can be extremely traumatic to families, especially children. My children’s picture book, Living With Mom, Spending Time With Dad takes us through a myriad of emotions that two children, Stephen and Alex, experience through this tumultuous period. Young Alex especially gives an extremely candid and honest account of the day-to-day trauma, the hostility and at times the many poignant memories that he has. Living with Mom, Spending Time with Dad also addresses the concerns and anguish of being torn between two parents. Throughout the story there is that underlying hope that everything will turn out alright and everyone will be back in their original comfort zone.

]]> Comment on When Should You Get a Divorce? by Brian Daniel http://www.your-divorce-advisor.com/2009/12/when-should-you-get-a-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-58 Brian Daniel Mon, 21 Dec 2009 02:27:30 +0000 http://www.your-divorce-advisor.com/2009/12/when-should-you-get-a-divorce/#comment-58 A Positive Divorce Recovery Book for Your Members Hi, I know that you may be using your own materials or those of others’, but I was hoping you might also have some interest in my book too as another source of help. I can offer you DOUBLE the book discounts I have below as a trial for you and your members. I am a local author in Canton/Akron, Ohio and have just published, last October 2008, a book on divorce recovery called "Yes, There Is an Upside of Divorce, It Can Be Your Second Chance at Life!" You can search "upside of divorce" on Amazon and read the great reviews I have there. One of my top 5-Star ratings is from Tracy, who is the owner of a national web support group called Woman’s Divorce (com) and has used parts of my chapters for her members going through divorce. I have sold over ninety copies locally and received the same great feedback, including some to the Church of New Hope in Stow, Ohio for their divorce support group. I have also sold three copies to our Stark County Libraries for circulation here in Canton. I am hoping you may want to buy some copies too to provide some other good help and support to your divorced members. And perhaps they may want to buy their own copy as well. My book has a more positive approach to divorce recovery and also goes further about how to make a happier and more enjoyable life after divorce. For just $12 or so, my book could be another reference book or a gift of help from you to your members suffering through their divorce or separation. Book Discounts are available on my own website, Self-Help-Products-and-Services (com) where you can save $2 to $5 off Amazon’s costs per book. I'm hoping you might try a couple books and see what your members say about it. I’m sure most, if not all of them, will find some good help in my book. My ISBN is 978-1-4196-9304-5. I also have a workbook version that could be used for support groups and have other information and a photo of my book if you are interested. If there are other people you think I should contact or those who may want to contact me, please let me know. . Thanks for your consideration here. Brian Daniel www.Self-Help-Products-and-Services.com Email: james@self-help-products-and-services.com A Positive Divorce Recovery Book for Your Members

Hi,
I know that you may be using your own materials or those of others’, but I was hoping you might also have some interest in my book too as another source of help. I can offer you DOUBLE the book discounts I have below as a trial for you and your members.

I am a local author in Canton/Akron, Ohio and have just published, last October 2008, a book on divorce recovery called “Yes, There Is an Upside of Divorce, It Can Be Your Second Chance at Life!” You can search “upside of divorce” on Amazon and read the great reviews I have there. One of my top 5-Star ratings is from Tracy, who is the owner of a national web support group called Woman’s Divorce (com) and has used parts of my chapters for her members going through divorce.

I have sold over ninety copies locally and received the same great feedback, including some to the Church of New Hope in Stow, Ohio for their divorce support group.
I have also sold three copies to our Stark County Libraries for circulation here in Canton.

I am hoping you may want to buy some copies too to provide some other good help and support to your divorced members. And perhaps they may want to buy their own copy as well.

My book has a more positive approach to divorce recovery and also goes further about how to make a happier and more enjoyable life after divorce.

For just $12 or so, my book could be another reference book or a gift of help from you to your members suffering through their divorce or separation.

Book Discounts are available on my own website, Self-Help-Products-and-Services (com) where you can save $2 to $5 off Amazon’s costs per book.

I’m hoping you might try a couple books and see what your members say about it. I’m sure most, if not all of them, will find some good help in my book.

My ISBN is 978-1-4196-9304-5. I also have a workbook version that could be used for support groups and have other information and a photo of my book if you are interested.

If there are other people you think I should contact or those who may want to contact me, please let me know.
.
Thanks for your consideration here.
Brian Daniel
http://www.Self-Help-Products-and-Services.com
Email: james@self-help-products-and-services.com

]]> Comment on Save Your Marriage Through Active Listening by tipsofrelationship http://www.your-divorce-advisor.com/2009/11/save-your-marriage-through-active-listening/comment-page-1/#comment-52 tipsofrelationship Fri, 11 Dec 2009 11:54:18 +0000 http://www.your-divorce-advisor.com/2009/11/save-your-marriage-through-active-listening/#comment-52 There comes a time in your married life when you must do something or else your marriage is going to end in divorce. You can read all the save my marriage books that you want to but until you recognize the problem you cannot solve the problem. How do you narrow down all the problems that have began to accumulate to find the one problem that caused all of this? There comes a time in your married life when you must do something or else your marriage is going to end in divorce. You can read all the save my marriage books that you want to but until you recognize the problem you cannot solve the problem. How do you narrow down all the problems that have began to accumulate to find the one problem that caused all of this?

]]> Comment on Can You Make a Divorce Positive? by Cory Aidenman http://www.your-divorce-advisor.com/2009/12/can-you-make-a-divorce-positive/comment-page-1/#comment-50 Cory Aidenman Thu, 10 Dec 2009 11:59:44 +0000 http://www.your-divorce-advisor.com/2009/12/can-you-make-a-divorce-positive/#comment-50 This advice comes at the perfect time when I was asking myself this very question. This advice comes at the perfect time when I was asking myself this very question.

]]> Comment on Best Get Your Ex Back Advices by Get Ex Back Help http://www.your-divorce-advisor.com/2009/12/best-get-your-ex-back-advices/comment-page-1/#comment-49 Get Ex Back Help Thu, 10 Dec 2009 06:29:49 +0000 http://www.your-divorce-advisor.com/2009/12/best-get-your-ex-back-advices/#comment-49 Thanks for this. It really a very good addition to the existing text to get ex back. Please keep on posting such useful stuff. Thanks for this. It really a very good addition to the existing text to get ex back. Please keep on posting such useful stuff.

]]> Comment on Learn How To Get Your Ex Back Fast by Cory Aidenman http://www.your-divorce-advisor.com/2009/10/learn-how-to-get-your-ex-back-fast/comment-page-1/#comment-47 Cory Aidenman Tue, 17 Nov 2009 11:22:13 +0000 http://www.your-divorce-advisor.com/2009/10/learn-how-to-get-your-ex-back-fast/#comment-47 This is a great post. I've experienced how hard it is to get your ex back.. but you have some great advice here This is a great post. I’ve experienced how hard it is to get your ex back.. but you have some great advice here

]]> Comment on Online Dating and The Baby Boomers by donna f. ferber, LPC, LADC http://www.your-divorce-advisor.com/2009/11/online-dating-and-the-baby-boomers/comment-page-1/#comment-44 donna f. ferber, LPC, LADC Thu, 12 Nov 2009 16:04:13 +0000 http://www.your-divorce-advisor.com/2009/11/online-dating-and-the-baby-boomers/#comment-44 As a psychotherapist who works with life transitions, I offer these thoughts. Baby Boomers have different goals and needs than the younger folks using dating sites because they are in a different life stage. Understanding these differences can make your experience of midlife dating more enjoyable. 1. Boomers have had prior love relationships—usually at least one marriage. This changes both perception and expectation. 2. Boomers have built a life and are looking for someone with whom they can share it. 3. Rather than being “upwardly mobile,” Boomers usually are enjoying the fruits of their youth. 4.Boomers have developed strong belief systems—what they value, what they believe and who they vote for. 5.Boomers are looking for someone to share the hard times as well as the fun times. They know that life is short, people get sick and die, pensions can disappear and the unexpected happens. By taking sometime to explore what kind of relationship they REALLY want at this stage in life, Baby Boomers are less likely to set themselves up for disappointment. Donna F. Ferber, LPC, LADC Author "Profileactics: A Guide for the Prevention of Ill-Conceived Personal Ads As a psychotherapist who works with life transitions, I offer these thoughts. Baby Boomers have different goals and needs than the younger folks using dating sites because they are in a different life stage. Understanding these differences can make your experience of midlife dating more enjoyable.
1. Boomers have had prior love relationships—usually at least one marriage. This changes both perception and expectation.
2. Boomers have built a life and are looking for someone with whom they can share it.
3. Rather than being “upwardly mobile,” Boomers usually are enjoying the fruits of their youth.
4.Boomers have developed strong belief systems—what they value, what they believe and who they vote for.
5.Boomers are looking for someone to share the hard times as well as the fun times. They know that life is short, people get sick and die, pensions can disappear and the unexpected happens.
By taking sometime to explore what kind of relationship they REALLY want at this stage in life, Baby Boomers are less likely to set themselves up for disappointment.
Donna F. Ferber, LPC, LADC
Author “Profileactics: A Guide for the Prevention of Ill-Conceived Personal Ads

]]> Comment on Steps to Be Taken to Get Divorced in Canada by Cory Aidenman http://www.your-divorce-advisor.com/2009/11/steps-to-be-taken-to-get-divorced-in-canada/comment-page-1/#comment-34 Cory Aidenman Tue, 03 Nov 2009 07:38:31 +0000 http://www.your-divorce-advisor.com/2009/11/steps-to-be-taken-to-get-divorced-in-canada/#comment-34 I think you made some good points, thanks for the insightful post. I think you made some good points,
thanks for the insightful post.

]]> Comment on Learn How To Get Your Ex Back Fast by Tanay http://www.your-divorce-advisor.com/2009/10/learn-how-to-get-your-ex-back-fast/comment-page-1/#comment-26 Tanay Fri, 30 Oct 2009 14:03:16 +0000 http://www.your-divorce-advisor.com/2009/10/learn-how-to-get-your-ex-back-fast/#comment-26 NEVER appear desperate. People are less willing to give something to someone if they know they are desperate. We are wired in a way that we feel we need to protect something if it is in wanted in a bad way. But if you simply show your ex you're happy with yourself and don't need them, they will become more willing to open themselves to you. Problems within most relationship are hardly ever cut and dry. Sometimes you perceive you are doing something good but really you only push them further away. You need to let go of the fact that you really know what is best for the relationship because truth is you could be too emotionally involved to see the solution clearly. NEVER appear desperate. People are less willing to give something to someone if they know they are desperate. We are wired in a way that we feel we need to protect something if it is in wanted in a bad way. But if you simply show your ex you’re happy with yourself and don’t need them, they will become more willing to open themselves to you.

Problems within most relationship are hardly ever cut and dry. Sometimes you perceive you are doing something good but really you only push them further away. You need to let go of the fact that you really know what is best for the relationship because truth is you could be too emotionally involved to see the solution clearly.

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